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When Happy Hour means alcoholism

Filed under: Compulsion & Recovery — Affie Adagio at 1:40 am on Sunday, July 2, 2006

Happy Hours, photo by Emin Ozkan, iZIR, TURKEY, social ritualHow great it is for most people to meet at the end of the day and enjoy two-drinks-for-the-price-of-one with work colleagues or mates. Happy Hour for the majority of people it is just that, but for those who have developed a drinking problem, Happy Hour is anything but happy. For them it means when they join the others, their drinking gets out of control. That’s when Happy Hour means alcoholism. If they are in recovery then usually they avoid that social ritual at the end of the day. Quite a paradox at that, but they have no choice for the sake of their sanity.

Happy Hour had been great as he and his mates
had been winding down after a busy day
he felt in a good mood, therefore, he was
oblivious to the fact that he had bloodshot eyes
and being drunk, his words slurred badly
I gave him feedback on what was obvious and
he admitted that the ideal was that he should
stop after the first few drinks but as he couldn’t
the realisation hit him yet again
he needed to accept the fact that alcohol
was his enemy and not his friend
and that fun with mates can be healthy
but he needs to avoid the ritual of having drinks
when Happy Hour means alcoholism

3 Comments »

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Comment by Justin Jhones

7 August 2006 @ 8:55 pm

well i think its ok if drink is taken occasionally but to limits.

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Comment by Affie

14 August 2006 @ 12:47 am

You are right Justin, happy hour only becomes a problem for those who cannot stop at one drink.

Affie

3

Comment by David Wilding

10 November 2007 @ 7:42 am

Yes it is true – especially here in the UK – that far too many people just DO drink too much. And MORE than in the past.

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