Today is the day of love. Some people criticise the practise because they believe it is too commercialised. Other people enjoy the romantic and sensual mood of the day. It was once the role of the male to send flowers, chocolates and poetry to the female, often it was an anonymous gesture, creating intrigue. Nowadays it is something both men and women do for each other. It is a ritual that enhances relationships. Unless both partners dislike celebrating the day of love, then it is worthwhile to participate in the celebration.
Bruce felt that it was ridiculous to
celebrate Valentine’s Day
Vicki was looking forward to
receiving some show of affection
on the day of love from her new partner
somehow he had managed to avoid it
on previous occasions but she had
made it clear that it was important to her
Bruce ordered the works
flowers, perfume, choice words in the card
and dinner for two at a romantic restaurant
why? because he is a smart bloke and
values the relationship enough to
do the right thing when he is made aware
just as Vicki has done with his wishes
such as fishing with the mates on the
first Sunday of the month and the
regular card night at their place
with her playing the hostess
this exchange of favours to satisfy
each others desires is what makes
their relationship special
Happy Valentine’s Day, photo by Michal Koralewski, Gniezno, Poland, day of love
Thanks for your comment Atlanta, it confirms how important Valentine’s Day can be for a romantic trade-off. It triggered a new post on romantic trade-offs.
I love this! My Husband put a offer in on a boat (for fishing) way under the asking price on Valentine’s Day. The bloke asked his wife “What do you think I should do?â€â€¦â€¦.â€SELLLLL ! †she says as she weighs up that there is no money for her valentines present…..
He will get his boat and I had conversation with him over a lovely dinner. (and a bottle of perfume). The boat is something I have been wanting him to get so he won’t work so much. x Atlanta